and if he wants to leave
then let him leave
you are terrifying
and strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love
As an atheist, I see nothing “wrong” in believing in a God. I don’t think there is a God, but belief in him does no harm. If it helps you in any way, then that’s fine with me. It’s when belief starts infringing on other people’s rights when it worries me. I would never deny your right to believe in a God. I would just rather you didn’t kill people who believe in a different God, say. Or stone someone to death because your rulebook says their sexuality is immoral. It’s strange that anyone who believes that an all-powerful all-knowing, omniscient power responsible for everything that happens, would also want to judge and punish people for what they are.
surround yourself with people who
- praise you because they mean it
- don’t want anything but your company
- do their best to understand you
- you feel like you can confront if you need to
- (know they can confront you lovingly in turn)
- make you feel comfortable
- stick with you through good and bad times
- are positive influences on your everyday life
I think my favorite thing about this generation is how seriously everyone takes their Hogwarts house.
I’m becoming more silent these days. I’m speaking less and less in public. But my eyes, god damn, my eyes see everything.
Notice the people who are happy for your happiness, and sad for your sadness. They’re the ones who deserve special places in your heart.
It’s scary to find someone that makes you happy. You start giving them all of your attention because they’re what makes you forget everything bad that’s going on in your life. They’re the first person you want to talk to in the morning and the last one before you sleep just so you can start and end your day with a smile. It all sounds great to have that someone, but it’s scary to think about how easily they could just leave and take that happiness away too when they go.
On June 30th I lost my best friend and my boyfriend within minutes of each other. Not in an accident or crazy alien abduction or anything. But they both left me. My best friend who was supposed to be there for me through everything, left me hanging out in the dry because her new boyfriend meant more to her. Do you know how much that hurts? 5 years of friendship down the drain because of some drunk asshole with a crooked dick. And my boyfriend left me because I told him the truth. Granted, we didn’t by any means have a perfect relationship. But I loved him more than I’ve loved anyone before. He was the best and worst thing to ever happen to me. And now he’s just gone. We haven’t talked in almost a month. I know that doesn’t seem like much but after 4 years of constant communication, whether it be arguing or not, going this long without talking is devastating. He was my other best friend. He was my other half. And I think it’s just now hitting me that I don’t have that anymore. I don’t have the two most important people in my life anymore. I don’t have anyone to talk to about them because they were the only people I talked to! It’s starting to hit now that on June 30th…i lost my whole world.
waAaAAAAAhhHhhhhHhhTTTTfda mind fuck